I was at my friend house today to attend "Dinner for my soul and my body". Actually the gathering was about relationship. My friend Jack share to us some tips for couples and singles.
He mention this steps. that still stuck in my head. Usually i didn't remember stuff really easy. But, since this one important for me I guess God put it into my heard and my mind so I could learn and share to others too,

Ok...Jack said to keep relationship beautiful and harmony him and his wife does these things :

1. TRUST
          if we love our spouse we need to trust him or her
2. UNDERSTANDING
          if we love our spouse we need to understand him or her
3. RESPECT
          if we love our spouse we need to respect him or her
4. COMMUNICATION
          if we love our spouse we need to communicate to him or her
5. WILLING TO FORGIVE
          if we love our spouse we need a heart willing to forgive

Jack said without all stuff above our relationship is in danger. We all know that our "enemy"don't wants our family to be nice and love one another.
It's totally different with our God plan....God wants our family to be united all the time. To love your spouse.